Rita Marie Bockheim (Kuklewski)

Rita Marie Bockheim, 69, of Walker, MI, passed away peacefully, surrounded by her family, on December 16, 2023. Born on October 11, 1954, in Comstock Park, MI, Rita was the devoted daughter of Charles Sr. and Rose Marie (Pat) Kuklewski. She was preceded in death by her mother. In addition to her father, Rita is survived by sisters, Laura Kersjes (Bill), Walker, and Shari Bethel (Chris), Cascade Township, along with her former husband and friend, Bob Bockheim, Grand Rapids, and three children: Rachel of Austin, TX, Dan (Tarah) of East Grand Rapids, and Roxanne Brewer (Josh) of Allendale. Known for her endlessly giving spirit, and for maintaining lifelong friendships, Rita made a point of spending time with friends on a weekly basis. When not hosting parties and gatherings in her beautifully decorated home, she loved to shop, do puzzles, and bake a wide variety of treats. Considered a “rock star” by her coworkers at the Grand Rapids-based, Reagan Marketing + Design, Rita served as a receptionist and office administrator for 16 years. Her constant smile and vibrant personality never wavered despite her nearly 40-year bout with Lupus. In fact, many were unaware of her battle, which she faced with silent determination. A member of the ’72 graduating class at Kenowa Hills High School, Rita always knew she wanted to be a mom, which she made her life’s calling. Whether enjoying a home-cooked meal, or lounging on “the world’s comfiest” couch, visitors could always count on being doted upon by Rita. This includes her six grandchildren: Lydia, 19, Ava, 15, Fiona, 13, Jorgia, 9, Jaxon, 9, and Brody, 7, and many nieces and nephews who ignited her spirit daily. Few things made the courageous Rita happier than watching the sun set over Baptist Lake, the site of her family cottage. Fitting of a life devoted to others, it was an experience she enjoyed most when surrounded by loved ones. The Memorial Mass will be celebrated Thursday, December 21, at 11:00 AM at St. Anthony of Padua Church. Her family will receive visitors Wednesday, December 20, from 3:00 PM to 7:00 PM at Arsulowicz Brothers Remembrance Mortuary, 3525 Remembrance Rd. NW, and one hour prior to the Mass of Thursday. The Rosary will be prayed Wednesday at 6:30 PM. Memorial donations can be made to the Lupus Foundation of America (www.lupus.org).

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Rita Marie Bockheim (Kuklewski)

October 11, 1954 - December 16, 2023